I was at an event recently featuring Mayor Owens – From First to Next. She shared an exchange from the State of the Union: when she asked about immigration enforcement, the response was crisp and self‑assured—
“If the speed limit is 30, then 31 is illegal.” This was applied to immigration, as well, to explain why what is currently happening is right.
On the surface, it sounds airtight. Laws matter. I believe that. I’m not arguing for open borders, nor am I ignoring that crossing illegally is illegal.
But that tidy analogy has stuck with me—not because it convinced me, but because it avoids the harder, more honest conversation we actually need to have.
We do not live in a world of infinite resources. Not in policing, not in courts, not in immigration. Whenever resources are limited, enforcement is never one‑size‑fits‑all. It requires prioritization—which is a value judgment, whether we admit it or not.
If we had unlimited officers, unlimited courtrooms, unlimited beds, unlimited time? Maybe then “illegal is illegal” could stand alone. But we don’t. We never have. Pretending otherwise is a distraction that keeps us from talking about what really matters: who we prioritize, howwe treat people, and what kind of country we become in the process.
The speed‑limit example actually proves the opposite point.
Yes, 31 in a 30 is illegal. But that isn’t how enforcement works.
We prioritize harm:
- Reckless and impaired drivers over the cautious driver going 31 in perfect conditions.
- People who endanger others over people who technically violate a rule.
We do this across the justice system, too:
- A serial rapist is prioritized over someone who steals a pack of gum.
We don’t pretend the same urgency applies simply because both acts are “illegal.”
Severity matters. Risk matters. Context matters. We know this. We accept this. Immigration should not be the only place where we suddenly pretend discretion doesn’t exist.
I’m a Democrat. I also believe in enforcing immigration law, including removing people who are in the country illegally. Those truths sit together for me.
What doesn’t sit right is how people are sometimes treated in the process.
Because legality does not erase humanity.
A person leaving a horrid situation isn’t committing a crime of the heart; they’re trying to survive. Even when the law requires removal, we can remove with dignity. We can be firm without being cruel.
There is a line I will not cross: no one deserves to be treated without basic human rights—not in my name, not as the cost of “law and order,” not ever.
We have to be honest about something difficult: low‑hanging fruit is not the same as high risk.
When agencies lean on who looks undocumented, who sounds foreign, or who can’t afford a lawyer, that isn’t principled enforcement—it’s convenience. It’s also how citizens get stopped, detained, and harassed because they “fit the profile.” I cannot accept that. Not here. Not in a country that claims due process and equal protection as bedrock values.
If we truly believe in law and order, then the how matters as much as the what:
- No profiling as a shortcut
- Due process that’s real, not performative
- Transparent priorities focused on genuine threats
- Humane conditions and humane removals
These aren’t luxuries. They’re the minimums that keep enforcement from becoming punishment for existing.
Here’s where my conflict becomes heartbreak.
Some of the loudest voices cheering harsh treatment of undocumented people are the same voices insisting that all life is precious when opposing abortion. I don’t say this to score points. I say it because the inconsistency hurts.
How can all life be precious only in certain contexts?
How can the unborn deserve complete protection, while the living human being at our border is told, “You don’t belong to us, so we don’t care what happens to you”?
That isn’t consistency. That’s conditional compassion. And conditional compassion isn’t compassion—it’s control.
If we mean what we say about the value of life, then that value has to endure even when it’s inconvenient, unfamiliar, or when the person in front of us doesn’t look or sound like “us.”
We are capable of holding multiple truths:
- Laws matter.
- Resources are limited.
- Prioritization is unavoidable.
- Human dignity is non‑negotiable.
Enforcement without judgment isn’t fairness—it’s laziness.
Enforcement without humanity isn’t justice—it’s cruelty dressed up as duty.
What I want from our public conversation isn’t uniform agreement; it’s honesty. Let’s stop hiding behind slogans and talk about the real choices we’re making when we set priorities, fund agencies, and design policies. Let’s admit that convenience and fear often masquerade as principle.
In the end, the point isn’t just what we enforce. It’s who we become while enforcing it.
Because behind every case number is a person—someone’s child, someone’s parent, someone with a story they didn’t get to finish. We can uphold the law with a steady hand and still keep an open heart. We can be serious about borders and stubborn about dignity. We can protect safety without surrendering our soul.
If “illegal is illegal” is the whole sentence, we have written a country that is smaller than our promise.
But if we add the comma—illegal is illegal, and we will still act with humanity—then we are writing the kind of country I believe we can be.
All life means all.
At the checkpoint and the courthouse.
In policy and in practice.
In how we speak about people and how we treat them when no one is watching.
If we can’t carry that truth into enforcement, then the life we’ve decided to protect isn’t just theirs—it’s ours. And we will have let it slip through our fingers.
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